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| This sling-back pump is courtesy of Wikimedia Commons. Photo by Olivier Luma. |
The other Sunday morning, I was late. So I asked my husband to grab my black pumps. He came back with black sandals. I said, “No. Black pumps. Those are heeled sandals.” He went back to the closet and came back with another pair of shoes. I sighed. “Sweetie, those are mules. I need pumps.” Eventually, I found the pumps.
It occurred to me that if a man doesn’t even know what a shoe is called, then there is a whole world of shoe communication that he does not understand. So I’ve written a husband’s definitive (short) guide to women’s shoe types and what they mean. Here it is.
Pumps. A woman wears these with a suit.
They have a heel and enclose most of the foot. (Though there are open-toed and sling-back
versions, which have nuances of meaning. But that is beyond the scope of this
quick reference guide.) When I wear them it means, I can pump my own gas, but
if you want to do it that would be great because I don’t like smelling like
gasoline.
Sandals. Strappy shoes that expose the toes.
There are two main types.
One, the heeled party type. These mean I
plan to have fun and am not opposed to drinking something with bubbles.
Two, the flat type. These mean Take Me To
the Beach. Now.
Mules. Something you side your foot into.
As in, I’m as tired as a pack-worn mule and can’t be bothered with fasteners. You
should probably pour me a double strength espresso with a twist of lemon.
N.B. If they are Birkenstocks, it means I’m
over forty and I’ve gone through a granola phase.
This should be nipped in the
bud if it threatens to come back. Seriously, do you remember the tofu phase?
Kitten heels. Playful shoes with a tiny, thin
heel. They mean I’m feeling girly and playful as a kitten. (Think Audrey
Hepburn in How to Steal a Million.)
They also mean, after the kids are in bed, I would totally be open to playing
hide and seek with Nerf dart guns in the dark.
Sneakers. I can pump iron. I can run like the
wind. Okay, maybe not. But I can
beat myself shadow
boxing. And just so you know, it means we’re eating healthy tonight.
Stilettos. The name obviously comes from a type
of spy knife. Think tall, thin high heel that could be used to stab someone. You
think this means “sexy.” You are wrong. This shoe means
I-am-feeling-so-confident-that-I-don’t-care-that-these-these-things-are-going-to-give-me-back-spasms-later-today.
These shoes mean you will need to find a bottle of Aleve and a tube of muscle
pain cream.
Slippers with wool socks. I need a nap, an intravenous drip of
a caffeinated beverage, and/or a break from the children. Afterwards, a long,
hot bubble bath.
Hopefully,
this clears everything up.
